That mindset is keeping you stuck.
When you rely on luck, chance, or the hope of being “chosen,” you give away your power.
You end up waiting, wishing, and hoping that love will just happen. But it doesn’t.
DOES THIS SOUND FAMILIAR?
You have beliefs like "all men are bad" or "there are no good men in my city" that are silently sabotaging your chances of a fulfilling relationship.
You attract emotionally unavailable partners and keep drawing in hot-and-cold relationships that are keeping you in the cycle of avoidant or toxic love.
You keep mistaking chaos for passion and when you attract love that feels “too good”, it might trigger your wounds instead of your desires.
You keep chasing love instead of allowing it to come to you.
You struggle holding space for intimacy without fear. True connection requires vulnerability, and your inner resistance to being fully seen might be pushing love away.
You are relying on external validation instead of internal wholeness.